Like many Christians, I have a ceramic Nativity set that I put up every Christmas season. Naturally the Baby Jesus is the focal point. The Virgin Mary kneels next to the Baby. The Three Magi in their colorful robes, the shepherds carrying a lamb, and the angels are always popular. But who is that sometimes overlooked person? It is Joseph, and we cannot forget him! Today I would like to take a closer look at St. Joseph, and how he played an important part in the Christmas story.
As our Scripture opens, we read that Joseph was betrothed, or engaged, to marry Mary. In the days of the Bible, a betrothal or engagement was legally binding. It was much stronger than today’s engagements, which are often broken on a whim, with little to no consequences. In those days a betrothal was basically as legally and socially binding as the actual marriage, only the couple did not live together yet. Knowing this, we can only imagine the complete shock that Joseph had when he heard that Mary was going to have a baby! (vs. 18).
We don’t know if it was Mary herself who told him, or if he heard from other people in the neighborhood. However Joseph confronted her about this, and the story she told was the second big shock that he had. Mary told him about the visit from the angel Gabriel, and that she hadn’t been unfaithful. The baby was conceived by the power of the Holy Spirit, and would be the Son of God. This was an incredible tale, something that was impossible to believe!
Joseph left and went to his home to think about all of this, and what he was going to do (vs. 19). We read that he was a just or righteous man. He practiced his faith, and obeyed the Mosaic Law. However, Joseph was also a compassionate man. His righteousness was not harsh or legalistic like that of the Pharisees. He did not want to publicly shame Mary.
The more he thought about this, the more puzzled he was. This just didn’t seem like something Mary would do. Being a devoutly religious man, Joseph would not have chosen a promiscuous woman as a bride, someone who would sleep around with other men in the village. Nor had Mary ever been known to be a liar, making up tales. Joseph might have wondered if perhaps she had been assaulted by someone, perhaps a Roman soldier, and the trauma of it had addled her thinking.
Joseph knew that he had to do what was right, as he couldn’t proceed with the betrothal. That would put him in a bad light, as someone who couldn’t “wait for his wedding”. Joseph decided to quietly end the betrothal and not make a spectacle of Mary. She would have to endure enough shame later, and he didn’t want to add to that.
As Joseph slept, the Lord God spoke to him in a dream in which an angel came to him, telling him to take Mary as his wife. What she had told him about the baby was the truth (vs. 20-21). The angel confirmed the divine origin of this Baby. Joseph was obedient to this vision from God, and immediately took Mary as his wife (vs. 24). He did this knowing that this action would also put him in a bad light within the community, as an unchaste man before his wedding, or as a fool for taking an impure woman as his wife, and raising her illegitimate child.
Joseph obeyed God, and as the Child’s foster father, he was given naming authority, establishing Jesus’ legal Davidic lineage (vs. 21). He named the Child Jesus, which means “Yahweh saves” or “the Lord is salvation”. This is the first time in the Gospels that told of the specific mission of Jesus, as our Savior. The Gospel writer Matthew emphasized here that the conception and birth of Jesus fulfilled Old Testament prophecy, specifically Isaiah 7:14.
Outside of this Scripture passage we discover that Joseph was a carpenter (Matthew 13:55), and not a wealthy one, as he gave the more modest sacrifice when presenting Jesus in the Temple as a baby (Luke 2:22-24). He was a righteous man who immediately obeyed God whenever He told him to do something, such as marrying Mary, fleeing to Egypt (Matthew 2:13-15), and then returning to Nazareth (Matthew 2:19-23).
Joseph never hesitated in his obedience. He didn’t argue with God about anything he was told to do. He simply obeyed. Joseph was an honorable man. He shielded the one he loved, Mary, the mother of the Son of God, from public shame. Joseph protected her as they traveled to Bethlehem while she was expecting, and he protected both her and the Baby Jesus from the murderous wrath of King Herod. Joseph accepted a role that undoubtedly brought him misunderstanding and gossip. Joseph never wavered from being the godly man who, along with the Virgin Mary, raised the Lord Jesus.