Have you ever walked through a field or prairie and when you returned home you found several cockleburs attached to your slacks or socks? Those can sometimes be difficult to remove without making a snag. They also can get caught in the fur of a dog, and if he brings home a lot of them he might need an unexpected trip to the groomer. The most notable characteristic of a cocklebur, their ability to tightly cling on to what brushes up against them. Clinging is just one of several things that St. Paul instructs believers to do in our portion of Scripture today. Let’s look at God’s Word for today.
In this second half of the 12th chapter of Romans, Paul gives a series of instructions of what Spirit-filled love looks like in real life. Genuine Christian love must govern every relationship, every reaction, and every circumstance in life. This passage is an outline for practical holiness and Christlike conduct in a world that today is very hostile to the message of Jesus.
The Apostle begins with the instruction that our love for one another must be real, not fake, not sentimental, nor self-serving (vs. 9). Biblical love is rooted in truth, not in emotion. True Christian love is a holy love. Genuine love will hate what is evil. It will cling to God’s standards of righteousness. As believers, we need to hold on tightly to what is good and godly, holding on and clinging to God’s Word just like a tenacious cocklebur!
The next several verses describe how we should love our fellow Christians (vs. 10-13). A Spirit-filled believer will put others first, resisting pride and self-promotion. We will show diligence in our service for others, with energetic obedience to God, boiling over with zeal, as all of our work is ultimately for the Lord Jesus. This is possible when we stay connected to the Lord through prayer (vs. 12). As Paul stated a similar sentiment in I Thessalonians 5:17, maintain an attitude of prayer throughout the day, keeping a mindset that God is always there with us. With our joy anchored in future glory, we can endure troubles through constant dependence on God. Our love for other believers will show itself in meeting their needs and pursuing opportunities to bless others.
Paul continues with several verses showing how we show love towards the hostile world (vs. 14-16). He instructs us to bless those who persecute or hurt us. This is supernatural. Only a Spirit-filled believer can respond to hostility with blessing. We will also show empathy to others with what they are going through. The world will see harmony in our church, where we welcome the humble and reject self-importance.
Next we come to an often difficult instruction, and that is to show no retaliation, but leave the vengeance to God (vs. 17-20). Jesus does not want us to repay evil treatment to those who treat us with evil. Vengeance belongs to God alone. Instead He wants us to live peaceably with others if it is possible, though unfortunately sometimes their attitude will not allow it. Our response to hostility must reflect Jesus, not the flesh.
Has someone mistreated you? Bless them by praying for them. We can also help them with a need or doing an act of kindness. God will give us the strength to overcome evil with good. We may never overcome the evil in their heart, but we can surely overcome the evil feelings we have for them in our own heart. We must remember, vengeance belongs to God, and the Day of the Lord’s vengeance is coming. He will repay perfectly.
Paul quotes in verse 20 from Proverbs 25:21-22. We are to feed our enemy and give him something to drink. “Heaping coals of fire” refers to producing conviction, shame, and repentance. It is not a type of personal revenge.
Our Scripture concludes with the instruction to not be overcome by evil, but instead to overcome evil with good (vs. 21). Evil wins when it provokes a sinful reaction from us. However good wins when believers respond with Christ-like righteousness. Don’t let evil get the best of you, but conquer evil by doing good. We conquer evil not by force, but by Spirit-empowered goodness.
These instructions from God’s Word are not suggestions. They are divine mandates for godly Christian living. We can’t do this on our own, though. We need God’s power through the Holy Spirit to follow this in our life. Let us, through the Holy Spirit, show our love for Jesus by rejecting evil and refusing worldly retaliation.